Prayer - Does it Really Work?

I know that the wording of this question sounds a little strange - but as I thought of alternative wording, I decided that this exact question is truly the essence of what I wonder.

 

Of course, over the years I have often "wished" privately, even making "deals" with G-d to ensure my hopes were answered; but I don't know that I have really prayed as other do.  After experiencing so much tragedy within my family, I have come to the conclusion that G-d doesn't really watch out for individuals so I haven't held much value in the idea of private prayer.  I know I learned somewhere along the way that community prayer is the essence of Judaism, but I am unsure how that is different when it comes to praying for individuals.

 

Recently, I asked my synagogue to have my mother's name to be put on the list for the prayer for healing because she has been ill.  I have to admit, I felt very uncomfortable with the idea, but thought that it couldn't hurt...just in case...

 

Over the past several weeks as my friends and colleagues have learned that my mother was ill, I have been astounded that so many people, people of all religions,  told me that they would include her in their prayers.  I never realized how many people truly believe in the power of prayer.

 

Recently, my mother had improved in some ways and my grandmother, who has never been religious, said to me, "I guess my prayers worked".   

 

Who knows,  maybe prayer does work.  A lot of people certainly think so!